Friday, December 30, 2005

Role Reversals

Come on guys, this is getting embarassing. You are all acting like little girls from the fifties and sixties. If a girl smiles at you or talks to you, or kisses you, that does not mean that she wants to go to bed with you. It just means that she was being polite or at the very most friendly. Afterall, who initiated the kiss? You did, I bet, not her. Not every woman in a bar wants to sleep with you just because they are in a bar. You might want to fuck all the women in the bar, but it is most definitely a one sided opinion. Just because they are physically capable to does not mean they have to.
I remember when I was a teenager many decades ago that girls quite often would act that way. "Oh my God, he talked to me." It wasn't a big F'in deal back then and it isn't one now. Stop obsessing about women that are not interested in you. If they are interested, they will let you know. They can be friendly without wanting to sleep with you. Your percentage of sexual good fortune would most likely rise dramatically if you stopped walking into the bar, mentally holding your dick and looking for your next target. Sex is not an acquisition game. It is about love, caring and respect. You may just be horny, tired of your marriage, or recently divorced, but grudge fucking the county does not change the fact that you were in a bad relationship that probably would not have happened if you entered into the relationship with your eyes open instead of your dick hard. If you are still married, a strange piece of ass is not going to fix it. Just spend the time that you are out trying to get laid on fixing the marriage that you have. How old do you have to get to figure this out. Your silliness in this matter have given women the obvious upper hand, not that they haven't had it all along, but now it is so painfully obvious. Lets take things back to the fifties or sixties when men acted like men and not little boys who just discovered something hard between their thighs and feel like they need to stick it in an unwilling woman.
A word to woman as well, let you intentions, or lack of them be clearly known. Horny men are not the sharpest knives in the drawer and can easily misinterpret your attentions. If you are not interested in an advanced relationship, don't send mixed messages. Don't hang out with them all night if you have no romantic intentions. A large number of men are not smart enough to play your games. If you have a man that is acting obsessive about you, cut off all relations and contact with them. Don't go out with them, eat with them or talk to them, and definitely don't let them buy you anything. I know that it is most likely great sport for you, but it very similar to setting up a deer feeder all year long, feeding the deer and then opening day going out and busting a buck. That is not hunting, it is target shooting. Be a responsible hunter, diligently persue the quarry you really want and be kind to the rest of the herd. Afterall, they are just dumb animals.